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Wednesday 9/10: Sponsored by HIGH5 Strengths Test - conscious aging, active as you age, busy when retired

Wednesday

"I’m not behind; I’m on my own timeline."

Welcome to Wednesday! Today, we're chatting about:

Did You Know?

People with positive views on aging live an average of _______ years longer.

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How to View Aging in a More Positive Light

What if getting older wasn’t something to resist, but something to embrace? The idea of “conscious aging” is about meeting each stage of life with purpose, curiosity, and self-compassion.

Instead of buying into cultural myths of what a certain age “should” look or feel like, conscious aging encourages you to define that for yourself. It’s a shift away from fear of irrelevance and toward vitality, which can boost both physical and emotional well-being. When we tell ourselves limiting stories, like expecting to feel worse just because past generations did, we risk stepping away from our own sense of energy and possibility.

Practical steps can help: practice self-acceptance, pursue hobbies or volunteering that give you purpose, and keep learning to engage your mind. Spend time with people across different ages, move your body regularly, and most of all, create your own version of what life should look like at any stage.

Tips to Build and Maintain an Active Lifestyle

Staying active doesn’t need to mean hours at the gym. Even short bursts of movement add up, and for older adults, regular activity brings big benefits for health and energy. The goal: about 150 minutes of moderate activity a week plus two days of strength training.

Start slow and steady. Begin with light activities, like short walks or gentle stretches, and build up over weeks. Always warm up before exercise and cool down after to protect your muscles and heart.

Set specific, realistic goals. A 10-minute walk three times a week is easier to commit to than “exercise more.” Track progress with a step counter, a simple log, or by sharing with a friend. Celebrating small wins can boost motivation.

Barriers are normal (bad weather, low energy, or cost) but there are solutions. Try walking indoors, streaming free workouts, or using household items as weights. Most importantly, find activities you enjoy, whether it’s dancing, swimming, or playing with grandkids.

How Knowing Your Strengths Can Boost Your Self-Care

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Trusted by +5M people and based on the positive psychology research, our test reveals your unique strengths, empowering you to work smarter, not harder. Invest in understanding yourself and watch relationships improve, productivity soar, and fulfillment grow. Stop fixing weaknesses - maximize what you already do brilliantly.

Thank you to HIGH5 Strengths Test for sponsoring Note To Self. 

Ways to Keep Life Full After You Retire

Retirement isn’t just about saving enough money. It’s also about how you’ll spend your days once the 9-to-5 ends. Studies show people who plan for activities beyond finances tend to feel more fulfilled and less isolated later in life.

One option is part-time work. Many retirees find joy in turning hobbies into side businesses or pursuing lighter versions of their old careers. Others embrace volunteering, which offers meaningful work, new friendships, and a sense of purpose. The key is to prepare in advance: nonprofits and new ventures often value skills and experience you can build before you retire.

Hobbies are another cornerstone. If you’ve been waiting to try painting, gardening, or traveling, retirement is the perfect season to expand those interests. Building friendships across age groups and staying physically active also helps keep energy and outlook strong.

What sets the happiest retirees apart often comes down to attitude. Those who embrace eccentricity, stay tough through challenges, or keep pets for companionship tend to thrive. The bottom line: start planning now, not just for financial security, but for a life that keeps you busy, connected, and joyful.

A Note From Us

Self-care often starts with self-awareness—and knowing your strengths can change everything. The HIGH5 Strengths Test, trusted by over 5 million people, highlights what you naturally do best so you can stop focusing on weaknesses and start building on what comes naturally.

The Pause

Before you go, take a small pause from your day with this tip brought to you by The Note To Self editors.

30 Second Reset: Stretch both arms up, bend side to side, then drop your arms and breathe.

Wellness Round-Up

Parting Thoughts

  • ✅ Did You Know: People with positive views on aging live an average of 7-8 years longer.

  • đŸ™‹đŸŒâ€â™€ïž Snapshot Of The Day: We'd love to see moments from our readers’ lives that they are proud of! If you recently accomplished an achievement, experienced a joyful moment, or are proud of a picture you have taken, be sure to capture it on camera and send it to us for a chance to be featured next week! 

  • 💭 Final Self-Care Thoughts for Today: There’s beauty in every stage. You don’t have to turn back time to move forward with confidence.

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