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Tuesday 12/2: Sponsored by Bellami - beauty hacks, moisturize nails, laser hair removal

Tuesday

"I release what no longer feels aligned."

Welcome to Tuesday! Today, we're chatting about:

True or False?

Your scalp ages faster than the skin on your face.

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Stress-Free Beauty Hacks for the Busy Holiday Season

The holidays tend to bring equal parts excitement and overwhelm, which is why simple, grounding routines make such a difference. A few tiny beauty habits, especially the ones that help you feel calm and refreshed, can take the edge off the busiest weeks of the year.

One easy shift: prep your skin the way you’d prep your space. A gentle exfoliation and a hydrating mask can help revive your skin after late nights, travel, or cold weather. This kind of moisture reset supports your skin barrier and helps your makeup sit smoother, which can be a confidence lift on its own.

It also helps to simplify your routine. Choose one go-to hairstyle, one reliable makeup look, and one product that instantly makes you feel more put together (like a tinted balm or a brightening serum). Reducing decisions reduces stress.

And finally, give yourself micro-moments of care: five deep breaths before leaving the house, a favorite scent on your wrists, or a warm washcloth over your face at night. Small things, but they help your body register safety and calm amid the swirl of the season.

The Trick to Clip-Ins That Actually Look Natural

Finding the right hair extensions can feel like guesswork, especially when shade-matching online never looks quite the same in real life. BELLAMI’s Silk Seam Clip-Ins are designed to make that whole process easier, starting with their Color Concierge, a complimentary service that helps you find your exact shade with expert precision.

Crafted with ultra-flat wefts and 100% Remy human hair, Silk Seam Clip-Ins blend seamlessly, add instant volume, and feel lightweight enough for all-day wear. And with 40+ shades and dimensional color options, your perfect match is closer than you think.

Whether you're refreshing your everyday look or adding a little extra confidence for the holidays, these clip-ins make it simple: just match your color, clip them in, and go.

Cyber Monday savings run through Wednesday—get 30% off while the sale lasts. After that, you can still use code REVEL20 to save 20% through the end of December.

Thank you to Bellami for sponsoring Note To Self. 

Winter Nail Care Tips You Need To Know

Cold, dry air can take a real toll on your nails, especially in fall and winter. Experts say nails are far more permeable to water than skin, which makes them more vulnerable to dryness from handwashing, dishwashing, and weather changes. When nails lose moisture, polish chips faster, breakage increases, and cuticles crack more easily.

A few small habits go a long way. Wearing gloves for chores and applying moisturizer right after your hands get wet helps your nails hold onto hydration. Exfoliating once a week with ingredients like glycolic acid or urea can also help remove dry, lifted nail cells so moisture can absorb more deeply.

For daily care, nail creams and oils both work well. Sunflower and Brazil nut oils are especially effective for flexibility. Try massaging your product in for a minute to boost blood flow, and on extra-dry days, “nail slugging” with a thick ointment overnight can make a noticeable difference. If dryness persists or your nails change shape or color, a professional check-in is always wise.

A Simple Guide to Laser Hair Removal

Waxing delivers instant smoothness, but the process is intense: warm wax, a quick rip, and that familiar sting that lingers for days. Laser hair removal feels different. Most describe it as short, quick zaps—more like brief snaps of heat than the deep pull of waxing. Many clinics use cooling technology to make treatments more comfortable, and because each session starts at a lower setting, you ease in gradually.

The surprising part: laser tends to get easier. As the hair becomes finer, the sensation lightens, even when settings increase. Waxing stays consistently sharp every visit, especially in sensitive areas.

Laser also skips the itchy grow-out phase. You shave beforehand, walk in smooth, and leave smoother. No planning outfits around stubble, no ingrowns forming in the meantime.

For many, the biggest difference comes after the appointment. Laser rarely leaves lasting tenderness, while waxing often brings redness or irritation for a day or two. Over time, fewer hairs grow back—and for most, that alone makes the zaps worth it.

The Pause

Before you go, take a small pause from your day with this tip brought to you by The Note To Self editors.

Unplugged Moment: Play a favorite winter album or playlist in the background—no screens, just sound.

Wellness Round-Up

A Note From Us

Between photos, parties, and everything in between, the right hair shade matters. BELLAMI’s complimentary Color Concierge takes the guesswork out of matching so your Silk Seam Clip-Ins blend perfectly all season.

Try the free Color Concierge and get 30% off site wide until Wednesday. (After that, get 20% off your first purchase with code REVEL20 through the end of December.)

Parting Thoughts

  • ✅ True or False: True. It’s exposed to heat, friction, and washing more often.

  • 🌅 Sunset Of The Day: Sunsets are more than beautiful—they’re actually good for your mood. Got a favorite one? Reply to this email with your best sunset or sunrise photo for a chance to be featured!

  • 💭 Final Self-Care Thoughts for Today: Taking care of your hair can be a ritual of self-respect—quiet, consistent, and yours alone.

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