Friday

"I let my inner voice be kind and supportive."

Welcome to Friday! Today, we're chatting about:

• How to find your signature style

• Why the little details matter

• Our favorite timeless jewelry for every style

• A guide to wedding dress codes

The Secret to Defining Your Unique Style

Ever feel unsure about what to wear? It’s time to find your signature style: a reflection of your personal tastes, not fleeting trends or what others are wearing. The secret is simple: what you love + what suits you = your signature style.

Start by identifying what you truly love. What colors, patterns, or silhouettes excite you? Browse for inspiration on Pinterest, magazines, or even your own closet. Take note of the pieces you’re drawn to and the looks that make you feel good.

Then, focus on styles that make you feel confident. Not everything you love may be the perfect style for you, but with a little experimentation, you can discover a style that brings out the best in you. Once you find the balance between what excites you and what suits your lifestyle, you’ll have a signature style that feels authentic.

With a signature style, dressing becomes effortless and enjoyable. No more confusion, just clothes that make you feel your best, every day.

The Power of the Small Details

Small details in your outfit can make a big impact on your personal style. Those subtle touches, like a unique accessory, a perfectly tailored jacket, or the right pair of earrings, help express your personality and build confidence.

Your clothes reflect who you are and how you want to be perceived. While the overall outfit matters, it’s often the finer details that leave lasting impressions. By choosing pieces that complement you, adding thoughtful accessories, or focusing on quality, you create a style that feels authentic to you.

Style isn’t about trends or fitting into a mold; it’s about embracing what makes you feel confident. Even simple, well-made items can elevate your look. The key is finding a balance between what suits you and what makes you feel good.

What Does Your Jewelry Say About You?

Jewelry can say what words don’t. A reminder of who you are, who you love, or how far you’ve come. At HYOU, they believe everyone deserves to wear something meaningful.

Crafted in gold vermeil and lab-grown diamonds, their jewelry pieces hold edge, emotion, and everyday power. No occasion needed. No permission required.

Maybe it’s a just-because gift for someone you love. Or a piece you buy for yourself because it simply feels right. Either way, HYOU was made to convey beauty that speaks your language.

Browse HYOU’s full jewelry collection and find your everyday statement piece.

Thank you to HYOU Fine Jewelry for sponsoring Note To Self. 

Wedding Style 101

Navigating wedding dress codes can feel confusing, but knowing the rules ahead of time can help you show up looking your best. From black-tie to casual, here's a breakdown of the most common codes.

For formal events like white-tie and black-tie weddings, women should wear floor-length gowns, while men need tuxedos with all the classic accessories. Black-tie optional offers a slightly more relaxed approach, where a formal suit or a dressy outfit is appropriate.

If you're attending a cocktail wedding, think elegant but less formal. A knee-length dress or suit is perfect. For more casual affairs, semi-formal or dressy casual dress codes allow for lighter fabrics and more relaxed looks, though still with a polished appearance.

No matter the dress code, the key is to feel confident in your outfit while respecting the couple's vision for their big day.

A Note From Us

Wellness Round-Up

Parting Thoughts

• ✅ True or False: True. Trends are often cyclical, with styles like low-rise jeans and wide-leg pants making comebacks.

• 🙋🏼‍♀️ Snapshot Of The Day: We'd love to see moments from our readers’ lives that they are proud of! If you recently accomplished an achievement, experienced a joyful moment, or are proud of a picture you have taken, be sure to capture it on camera and send it to us for a chance to be featured next week! 

• 💭 Final Self-Care Thoughts for Today: Trends come and go, but your style is yours. You don’t have to keep up to feel like yourself.

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